The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[KoopaDasher]

Apparently the movie "date" thing, whatever it is, that I had originally thought was a week from tomorrow, is actually tomorrow. Miscommunication. So... I'm having dinner with her tomorrow and seeing a movie.

[beardedwalrus]

Apparently the movie "date" thing, whatever it is, that I had originally thought was a week from tomorrow, is actually tomorrow. Miscommunication. So... I'm having dinner with her tomorrow and seeing a movie.

GETCHU SUMa

[KoopaDasher]

GETCHU SUMa

It's a platonic friendship. Yes, she told me I make her feel special like few other people have. Yes, she has started referring to us as "we" in conversation. Yes, she has told me that "we" need to move across the country together. Yes, she has told me that I need to see her house. Yes, she invited me to a hiking trip, and dinner and a movie. Yes, she spends hours every day texting me.

But it's a platonic friendship. She loves me in a non-romantic way.

[darthnater]

GETCHU SUMa

subtle.

[Mariolee]

That's creepy as fuck dude. There's no way any girl I've ever met would have said yes to that.

lol but she said yes. Read the invisitext!

[KoopaDasher]

We've already texted each other several dozen times today. She told me last night that she had to be at the airport at 5 am, so I set my alarm to wake up at that time and I sent her a message telling her to have a safe flight. She has, since then, sent me several pictures that she has taken from the plane of the Rocky Mountains. She's still trying to convince me that I should move to California. Just since this morning we've discussed planes, the Rocky Mountains, the pros and cons of moving to California, the pros and cons of staying here, what we'll have for dinner tomorrow night, and video games.

If I didn't have her very specific messages telling me she's not romantically interested in me, I would have long ago asked her out. As it is, I don't have to... she's already asked herself out for me. But apparently in a platonic way. Which... still doesn't make sense.

[KoopaDasher]

lol but she said yes. Read the invisitext!

Fuck the invisitext. You don't troll the Relationships thread with talk of successes. That's cruel and unusual punishment.

[Mariolee]

Fuck the invisitext. You don't troll the Relationships thread with talk of successes. That's cruel and unusual punishment.

That's how you know you're trolling right.
Anyway, I think the fact that you thought it was creepy as fuck shows that, in my unprofessional opinion, you overthink everything.

[stevencho]

That's how you know you're trolling right.
Anyway, I think the fact that you thought it was creepy as fuck shows that, in my unprofessional opinion, you overthink everything.

I was actually disappointed for you..

[Mariolee]

I was actually disappointed for you..

Now I feel disappointed in myself...

[KoopaDasher]

You know that feeling you get... when you're talking to someone... and you just can't bring yourself to stop, even to eat or sleep? You want to know everything about them? That's how the last week has been for me. I've spent almost every waking hour of the last week talking to this girl, and... I don't want to stop. Every time I learn something new about her it's like watching this incredible puzzle come together before my eyes. Every new detail is like a stitch in the most amazing tapestry ever made.

[KoopaDasher]

And... now she's talking about the two of us leaving this summer for a road trip across the country. And she's serious. She's already planning out where we'll go.

EDIT: Oops... half an hour later she turns around and tells me how much she's looking forward to dinner and a movie with her BEST FRIEND.

Goddamit.

[Spiderpig24]

And... now she's talking about the two of us leaving this summer for a road trip across the country. And she's serious. She's already planning out where we'll go.

EDIT: Oops... half an hour later she turns around and tells me how much she's looking forward to dinner and a movie with her BEST FRIEND.

Goddamit.

Haha, confusing isn't it? It sounds to me like she's not ready to commit to another relationship just yet, but she wants to be as serious with you as she can without being too much like a girlfriend. Either way, a summer road trip sounds pretty damn cool, are you taking up the offer?

[stevencho]

And... now she's talking about the two of us leaving this summer for a road trip across the country. And she's serious. She's already planning out where we'll go.

EDIT: Oops... half an hour later she turns around and tells me how much she's looking forward to dinner and a movie with her BEST FRIEND.

Goddamit.

With every girl I've ever dated they've always started out being my best friend. I mean the only real difference between a girlfriend and a best friend who is a girl is the physical contact.

[YamiGekusu]

Me and my boyfriend were hanging out in July of 2008 at one of his relatives' house and we sat next to each other on a couch watching National Treasure 2 (I don't care who you are, I loved that movie). We were still just friends at the time and I wanted to just cuddle up to him so bad. And then I looked down at my left hand at the ring my ex-fiance gave to me. I just wanted to throw that ring down a drain or something at that point. I wanted to email my fiance at the time or something to dump him or something but I felt it wasn't right to do such a thing.

I sold the ring in 2010 and got $60 from it.

I am glad I was dumped by my ex in the end. I got to end up with the guy I've been in love with since 2003-2004.

I love my boyfriend because he's there for me and listens to me. :')

[YoshiStar]

With every girl I've ever dated they've always started out being my best friend. I mean the only real difference between a girlfriend and a best friend who is a girl is the physical contact.

I disagree. Don't have time to elaborate, but nah that's definetely not true.

[KoopaDasher]

She asked me how my day was. I told her that I spent most of it worried about how she would react going back to school today after everything that happened last week. She told me she hated that she spent so much time in my thoughts. I told her that I rather enjoyed it. After all, they're not all worry thoughts.

No reply.

[Spiderpig24]

She asked me how my day was. I told her that I spent most of it worried about how she would react going back to school today after everything that happened last week. She told me she hated that she spent so much time in my thoughts. I told her that I rather enjoyed it. After all, they're not all worry thoughts.

No reply.

Yeah, not too sure girls like hearing things like that.

[KoopaDasher]

Yeah, not too sure girls like hearing things like that.

And now we have conclusive proof. Score one for scientific advancement. Yet again I assist in the betterment of mankind's understanding of how to royally fuck up a relationship.

[Mariolee]

And now we have conclusive proof. Score one for scientific advancement. Yet again I assist in the betterment of mankind's understanding of how to royally fuck up a relationship.

You have to be CoolTM. Do you understand why she wouldn't want to know she occupies your mind all the time?