The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[madoublex]

What do you mean? She even said we're most likely gonna end up getting married someday. We've known each other since we were 16. (we're both 19 now) and we call each other babe and baby.

That was information I didn't know. In that case, seems like something already happened. Good for you!

[BioHazard-92]

Friends with benefits? I don't see how that's a "normal" friendship. It seems like you guys are already unofficially on the next level already.

I wouldnt call it that though because we don't kiss or have sex but I want to at least start kissing. I should probably make a move huh?

[Mariolee]

I wouldnt call it that though because we don't kiss or have sex but I want to at least start kissing. I should probably make a move huh?

That's what you think constitutes as a relationship? Maybe I'm misinterpreting you, but I believe you honestly don't even need to kiss to have a true relationship.

[BioHazard-92]

That's what you think constitutes as a relationship? Maybe I'm misinterpreting you, but I believe you honestly don't even need to kiss to have a true relationship.

I was talking about your friends with benefits comment

[Mariolee]

I was talking about your friends with benefits comment

Oh man, sorry about that. Totally forgot about that post. My bad. But yeah, go forward with it for sure, but only if you think you're ready for a relationship.

[BioHazard-92]

Oh man, sorry about that. Totally forgot about that post. My bad. But yeah, go forward with it for sure, but only if you think you're ready for a relationship.

Yeah I'm thinking about asking her out relationship-wise after I get my car fixed and my expenses paid. That way I'll have more money for dates, gifts, condoms, and such well, tbh I already have the condoms but money for dates and gifts is what I mainly need.

[YamiGekusu]

My boyfriend enjoyed the gift I got him for Christmas (I got him Conduit 2)!

We've been an actual couple now for four-five months (we both lost track lol) now. He's cute, smart, and funny. And we can be nerdy together. And I love our silly spats while watching How I Met Your Mother.

[beardedwalrus]

well, tbh I already have the condoms

[Mariolee]

OK, so everyone knows that Middle School girl that has a crush on me that I mentioned earlier right? No? Well, there is one. Dang, she won't stop texting me. I am not at all interested in her, but she won't stop. How do I drop the hint that I don't like her without hurting her feelings. Whenever I don't answer her texts or say I'm busy, she send really melancholy replies like "It's okay....." or "".
How do I get this kid off my back?

[beardedwalrus]

OK, so everyone knows that Middle School girl that has a crush on me that I mentioned earlier right? No? Well, there is one. Dang, she won't stop texting me. I am not at all interested in her, but she won't stop. How do I drop the hint that I don't like her without hurting her feelings. Whenever I don't answer her texts or say I'm busy, she send really melancholy replies like "It's okay....." or "".
How do I get this kid off my back?

Don't reply. Just cut the bitch off. Block her out of your mind. Block her number if you have to.

[BioHazard-92]

Don't reply. Just cut the bitch off. Block her out of your mind. Block her number if you have to.

yeah thats what I do. It's okay to do that without thinking of yourself as a typical guy. Trust me, I do it all the time and don't feel bad

[Mariolee]

Don't reply. Just cut the bitch off. Block her out of your mind. Block her number if you have to.

I have to see her at certain cultural celebrations though. She's not a bitch though. She's nice, but she just has an immature view of relationships due to her still being in Middle School. There's like a four year difference between her and me.

[Unknown Flames]

I have to see her at certain cultural celebrations though. She's not a bitch though. She's nice, but she just has an immature view of relationships due to her still being in Middle School. There's like a four year difference between her and me.

Just tell her you're not interested.

[madoublex]

OK, so everyone knows that Middle School girl that has a crush on me that I mentioned earlier right? No? Well, there is one. Dang, she won't stop texting me. I am not at all interested in her, but she won't stop. How do I drop the hint that I don't like her without hurting her feelings. Whenever I don't answer her texts or say I'm busy, she send really melancholy replies like "It's okay....." or "".
How do I get this kid off my back?

You need to end it before it goes overboard. Getting a girl thats still in middle school to leave you alone is a bit like removing a band-aid. The longer you take to do it, the more painful it will be. I've dealt with it before, and I'm sure I'll deal with it again.

[beardedwalrus]

I have to see her at certain cultural celebrations though. She's not a bitch though. She's nice, but she just has an immature view of relationships due to her still being in Middle School. There's like a four year difference between her and me.

Oooooooooh that makes things tough. This might sound crazy, but the best way I can think of to handle this is to make yourself seem really awkward. Make all of your conversations end awkwardly and abruptly. She'll think you're odd, meaning that she'll probably no longer be interested in you, she'll stop taking to you as a result, and when you do see her, it'll be a lot less uncomfortable to face her when she thinks you're awkward rather than facing her if she thinks you hate her.

Trust me, any harmless way you can get out of simply telling her you're uninterested is the way to go. There's always the chance she could take it bad, and if she does, you will feel absolutely horrible for quite a while.

[madoublex]

Oooooooooh that makes things tough. This might sound crazy, but the best way I can think of to handle this is to make yourself seem really awkward. Make all of your conversations end awkwardly and abruptly. She'll think you're odd, meaning that she'll probably no longer be interested in you, she'll stop taking to you as a result, and when you do see her, it'll be a lot less uncomfortable to face her when she thinks you're awkward rather than facing her if she thinks you hate her.

Trust me, any harmless way you can get out of simply telling her you're uninterested is the way to go. There's always the chance she could take it bad, and if she does, you will feel absolutely horrible for quite a while.

This actually works very well, as long as you don't care about her gossiping about how weird you are.

[Mariolee]

yeah thats what I do. It's okay to do that without thinking of yourself as a typical guy. Trust me, I do it all the time and don't feel bad

Well you and I are not alike.

Just tell her you're not interested.

If it was as easy as that, I wouldn't have posted here. I don't want her to feel terrible and heartbroken, and telling her I'm just not interested will probably make her feel terrible.

You need to end it before it goes overboard. Getting a girl thats still in middle school to leave you alone is a bit like removing a band-aid. The longer you take to do it, the more painful it will be. I've dealt with it before, and I'm sure I'll deal with it again.

I know, I know. That's why I'm asking now.

Oooooooooh that makes things tough. This might sound crazy, but the best way I can think of to handle this is to make yourself seem really awkward. Make all of your conversations end awkwardly and abruptly. She'll think you're odd, meaning that she'll probably no longer be interested in you, she'll stop taking to you as a result, and when you do see her, it'll be a lot less uncomfortable to face her when she thinks you're awkward rather than facing her if she thinks you hate her.

Trust me, any harmless way you can get out of simply telling her you're uninterested is the way to go. There's always the chance she could take it bad, and if she does, you will feel absolutely horrible for quite a while.

I'm trying to make it seem like I'm super busy. Just a few minutes ago, she texted me "I have to tell you something". I took the bait and figured she wanted to tell me that she has a crush on me, in which I would have the gateway to tell her something that would get me out of it without hurting her. Then, as soon as I reply "What's up?" she says, "Um....nothing, nevermind! Hi! " I then told her I'm crushed with homework (which I am) to which she replied the same "Okay...."

I'm really hoping she doesn't text me anymore. I'm relying on me seeming too busy for her to be the safest way to show her I'm not interested.

[stevencho]

I like to casually work into the conversation that I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone right now.

[BioHazard-92]

I like to casually work into the conversation that I'm not looking for a relationship with anyone right now.

Or you can lie to her and say you're gay..or that you already have a girlfriend

[stevencho]

Or you can lie to her and say you're gay..or that you already have a girlfriend

Yeah except girls talk and you don't know who knows who.