The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[Thunderhead]

Umm, you forgot one thing...

Her number bro...

Why does everyone care so much about getting a girl's number? Of all things you could do in a new relationship, I would think that is the most pointless and arbitrary thing a person could possibly do. Girls give out their numbers so often that getting a girl's number means nothing more than the fact that the girl doesn't hate you. It's like being added on Facebook... people just add each other simply for the numbers, even if they don't really know you. I would even go so far as to suggest that stressing about asking a girl for her number is ridiculous. Of all the things you could possibly worry about, getting a girl's number is the most meaningless exercise.

And for those of you wanting to know, I have never once ASKED a girl for her number. For all the girls I've dated, no matter how long it lasted, they all GAVE me their number freely without me even mentioning it. That even applies to the single-date girls that I never heard from again. And female friends that I always wanted to date but never could. They WANT to give you their number. It's better than chocolate for them. Why in the world would you worry about it? If you don't ask... they just give it to you.

[super-mega-hyper-sonic]

Man, why do girls make me hurt so bad. I always now it's never going to end well but I'm always stupid enough to try.

[Thunderhead]

Man, why do girls make me hurt so bad. I always now it's never going to end well but I'm always stupid enough to try.

That is the way of the female, my friend. It is their strongest desire to cause you pain. The sound of your suffering is music to their ears. Your emotional pain is like a soothing beverage that they long to drink. Like living vampires, they feed on your romantic misery; it gives them life, youth, and happiness to know that they have caused another to feel pain on their behalf. And alas, like young Mr. Harker before us, we step willingly into their embrace, feeling the sting of the emotional fangs destroying us even as our eyes roll in ecstasy. We allow their groping, emotional fingers to ravage our mind even as we lean back and beg to be closer. And like the experiences of Mr. Harker, they will be glad to play with us... use us as their toy, like a cat with its mouse, until the moment when a stronger prize comes along. And we're left feeling like a vast empty shell, without hope or cause, trapped in a dungeon of our own creation.

The only cure for such a curse? A strict vow of relationship abstinence.

[Ronthis the Werewolf]

I'm never going to see her again, what's the point?

Oh, right.

Sorry man...

[Icyfirefists]

Shit, are we all guys here??

Um so my story goes like this.

well.....when i moved to my school there was number 1 who i liked but made a total fool out of myself with, asked her out and THOUGHT she said yeah, when she really said something close to nah, then with number 2, I liked her and she liked me at the time but it was weird and she was being all weird at the dance i asked her to because there were two other guys that liked her. So it fell out between us and now we're friends. With number 3 i liked her i still havent told her and im glad i havent. Then number 4, was a rreally shy and quiet girl and we went on one date but it didnt work out. and she became weird. Number 5, i am actually still in love with and when i told her, she friggin ripped my heart out and said she wanted to be friends. Number 6 liked someone else. Number 7 i never told and actually lost interest. My number 8 is actually my number 2 as of now and im gonna see if i can start again. Meanwhile im still in love with number 5.

Isn't my life just grand?

[Thunderhead]

Shit, are we all guys here??

Um so my story goes like this.

well.....when i moved to my school there was number 1 who i liked but made a total fool out of myself with, asked her out and THOUGHT she said yeah, when she really said something close to nah, then with number 2, I liked her and she liked me at the time but it was weird and she was being all weird at the dance i asked her to because there were two other guys that liked her. So it fell out between us and now we're friends. With number 3 i liked her i still havent told her and im glad i havent. Then number 4, was a rreally shy and quiet girl and we went on one date but it didnt work out. and she became weird. Number 5, i am actually still in love with and when i told her, she friggin ripped my heart out and said she wanted to be friends. Number 6 liked someone else. Number 7 i never told and actually lost interest. My number 8 is actually my number 2 as of now and im gonna see if i can start again. Meanwhile im still in love with number 5.

Isn't my life just grand?

Sounds like a whole lot of confused, naive young mistakes. And a lot of confusion as to the devaluing of the word "love". But hey, whatever floats your boat.

[Hunter]

Shit, are we all guys here??

"The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women"
I would say yes and that's for a good reason too, any woman wouldn't dare step foot into this rather creepy but slightly entertaining thread.All the women are at my Conversation thread.

[YamiGekusu]

"The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women"
I would say yes and that's for a good reason too, any woman wouldn't dare step foot into this rather creepy but slightly entertaining thread.All the women are at my Conversation thread.

Am I the only woman who talks about a guy I like in this thread?

[Novus]

Am I the only woman who talks about a guy I like in this thread?

Well, to be fair, you are the only female who is still active here.

[YamiGekusu]

Well, to be fair, you are the only female who is still active here.

This makes Yami Gekusu a bit lonely :|

[Ronthis the Werewolf]

Well, to be fair, you are the only female who is still active here.

MysticTikal is still active.

[Novus]

I found out the girl I likes goes to the youth group at my church, which meets up every Tuesday Night. I signed up. I have friends that go too so I won't look like a loner. Tomorrow is my first night. This means that I can see her two times a week now.

[YamiGekusu]

Me and my friend called each other "awesome."

It's a start...

But it's left me in an awesome mood as of late. <3

[stevencho]

My ex just invited me to go with her and her family to the lake this weekend... Girls are something else I tell ya.

[beardedwalrus]

So if you look back at my last post here a couple pages ago, you'll see that I had a thing for this one girl. I also said in the post that we were going to be hanging out at this party. It actually went really well. I'm a real outgoing guy, so even though I didn't really know most of the people there, by the end of the night I was the life of the party. For a homeschooled kid who just "sorta knew" everyone there, I did damn good. One other thing that happened, was I pretty much got that girl I was talking about wrapped around my finger. I am 100% sure that I could pretty effortlessly get her now. The strange part is, that turns me off. I am completely and totally uninterested in her now that I know I can have her. This isn't the first time this has happened either. I actually have a pretty extensive history of this very thing happening. I believe I talked to stevencho a while back about this. For some reason though, it really doesn't bother me. I've never been given any evidence that this isn't complete BS, but I think that if I just keep going through this process, I'll eventually find a girl who I can date without losing that "spark" that keeps me on my toes. But until then, I'm pretty satisfied being an independent guy.

[Flexx]

So if you look back at my last post here a couple pages ago, you'll see that I had a thing for this one girl. I also said in the post that we were going to be hanging out at this party. It actually went really well. I'm a real outgoing guy, so even though I didn't really know most of the people there, by the end of the night I was the life of the party. For a homeschooled kid who just "sorta knew" everyone there, I did damn good. One other thing that happened, was I pretty much got that girl I was talking about wrapped around my finger. I am 100% sure that I could pretty effortlessly get her now. The strange part is, that turns me off. I am completely and totally uninterested in her now that I know I can have her. This isn't the first time this has happened either. I actually have a pretty extensive history of this very thing happening. I believe I talked to stevencho a while back about this. For some reason though, it really doesn't bother me. I've never been given any evidence that this isn't complete BS, but I think that if I just keep going through this process, I'll eventually find a girl who I can date without losing that "spark" that keeps me on my toes. But until then, I'm pretty satisfied being an independent guy.

Yeah, I have the same problem, which is why I always hook up as opposed to get into a relationship...something happens once you know the other person is vulnerable. I suppose I like girls that can play hard to get, and continue that (to a degree) once we're in a relationship.

[stevencho]

So if you look back at my last post here a couple pages ago, you'll see that I had a thing for this one girl. I also said in the post that we were going to be hanging out at this party. It actually went really well. I'm a real outgoing guy, so even though I didn't really know most of the people there, by the end of the night I was the life of the party. For a homeschooled kid who just "sorta knew" everyone there, I did damn good. One other thing that happened, was I pretty much got that girl I was talking about wrapped around my finger. I am 100% sure that I could pretty effortlessly get her now. The strange part is, that turns me off. I am completely and totally uninterested in her now that I know I can have her. This isn't the first time this has happened either. I actually have a pretty extensive history of this very thing happening. I believe I talked to stevencho a while back about this. For some reason though, it really doesn't bother me. I've never been given any evidence that this isn't complete BS, but I think that if I just keep going through this process, I'll eventually find a girl who I can date without losing that "spark" that keeps me on my toes. But until then, I'm pretty satisfied being an independent guy.

It sounds shallow but yeah, getting the girl is the fun part. If they just fall into your arms completely open then you kinda lose the feeling that you were able to win her. Which is important to me for some reason. I like girls that play hard to get even while in the relationship life Flexx said.

[Ronthis the Werewolf]

Haha, so it turns out her brother is now back in...

So I'll see her a lot more ^.^

[Thunderhead]

It sounds shallow but yeah, getting the girl is the fun part. If they just fall into your arms completely open then you kinda lose the feeling that you were able to win her. Which is important to me for some reason. I like girls that play hard to get even while in the relationship life Flexx said.

What is WRONG with you people? You're not interested in a girl once she stops messing with your brain? God, I would give both testicles and my left arm if it meant girls could NEVER play hard to get, ever again. If anything, it's the exact opposite for me. Having a girl play hard to get frustrates me so much that after stressing over it to my breaking point, I just stop talking to her all together. Mainly because I know there has never been a girl that is honestly interested in me, so having a girl play hard to get is basically like saying "Sorry, not interested". So I just walk away. But you guys really disturb me... I can't believe you would be like that, it's so shallow.

[stevencho]

What is WRONG with you people? You're not interested in a girl once she stops messing with your brain? God, I would give both testicles and my left arm if it meant girls could NEVER play hard to get, ever again. If anything, it's the exact opposite for me. Having a girl play hard to get frustrates me so much that after stressing over it to my breaking point, I just stop talking to her all together. Mainly because I know there has never been a girl that is honestly interested in me, so having a girl play hard to get is basically like saying "Sorry, not interested". So I just walk away. But you guys really disturb me... I can't believe you would be like that, it's so shallow.

I'm not proud of it. I know it's shallow and it actually bothers me that it happens so often because I know I hurt the girl. But the fact is I can be honestly interested in a girl and then lose all interest once she show signs of liking me. It's a very strange phenomenon and hopefully it will go away as I get older.