The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[RAiDeN-209]

Ryan you do realize if you got a haircut you'd look a million times better, right?

I gotta agree.

[Unknown Flames]

So my friends and I were chillin' at a water park, and I randomly met this chick who rode with me in one of the two-person crazy dry rides. She was like "I really want to go on the water rides but my friends don't want", and I was like "Wanna go show them up and go on some water rides together?" (so fucking smooth). So I ditched my friends and went with her to go on some other two-person tube rides. I think this was my first official date where I acted on impulse. So I chilled with her for the rest of the day (like a couple hours) and we talked a lot n shit. She was pretty cool, even though she was older than me by a year. Though she lives hours away from where I do, so fuck. (i think she was really into me 2, what a shame)

tl;dr: I randomly met a chick and flirted with her all day and thats the end of that.

[Martiniii332]

So my friends and I were chillin' at a water park, and I randomly met this chick who rode with me in one of the two-person crazy dry rides. She was like "I really want to go on the water rides but my friends don't want", and I was like "Wanna go show them up and go on some water rides together?" (so fucking smooth). So I ditched my friends and went with her to go on some other two-person tube rides. I think this was my first official date where I acted on impulse. So I chilled with her for the rest of the day (like a couple hours) and we talked a lot n shit. She was pretty cool, even though she was older than me by a year. Though she lives hours away from where I do, so fuck. (i think she was really into me 2, what a shame)

tl;dr: I randomly met a chick and flirted with her all day and thats the end of that.

Smooth. I think I need some of that.

[Eggboy'13]

I gotta agree.

Agreed. Cut them shits off.
It'll be sexy.

[KoopaDasher]

I don't claim to understand this. I have changed nothing about my personality... I have changed nothing about how I approach people. I'm still quiet... I'm still reserved... I still listen far more than I speak. But I swear on all that is good in this world that every girl I've seen in the last two days is checking me out.

Today, for instance, I went to my favorite restaurant for lunch. I sit down, and there's a reasonably attractive young girl sitting with her family. She was probably 17 years old... or so I would guess. Auburn/red hair, and beautiful green eyes. I take a glance at her, randomly sweeping the restaurant as I do every time I eat, and she sees me looking. The next time I look up, she's looking at me. She looks away that time. The next time I look up, she's looking at me, and she doesn't look away. We hold the gaze for the moment, until I look away. We must have looked at each other, in quick glances that way, at least 15 times. She finally went to the bathroom, and while she was gone I left.

But come on... I've gone for nearly three years without a date and suddenly I do a few pull-ups... which have had very little noticeable effect outwardly... and girls are checking me out? What gives?

[Patches]

I don't claim to understand this. I have changed nothing about my personality... I have changed nothing about how I approach people. I'm still quiet... I'm still reserved... I still listen far more than I speak. But I swear on all that is good in this world that every girl I've seen in the last two days is checking me out.

Today, for instance, I went to my favorite restaurant for lunch. I sit down, and there's a reasonably attractive young girl sitting with her family. She was probably 17 years old... or so I would guess. Auburn/red hair, and beautiful green eyes. I take a glance at her, randomly sweeping the restaurant as I do every time I eat, and she sees me looking. The next time I look up, she's looking at me. She looks away that time. The next time I look up, she's looking at me, and she doesn't look away. We hold the gaze for the moment, until I look away. We must have looked at each other, in quick glances that way, at least 15 times. She finally went to the bathroom, and while she was gone I left.

But come on... I've gone for nearly three years without a date and suddenly I do a few pull-ups... which have had very little noticeable effect outwardly... and girls are checking me out? What gives?

It may be that due to a boost in confidence from your exercise regime, you're finally starting to notice them checking you out? That's awesome news either way...just stay away from 17 year olds as a general rule

[Mariolee]

I don't claim to understand this. I have changed nothing about my personality... I have changed nothing about how I approach people. I'm still quiet... I'm still reserved... I still listen far more than I speak. But I swear on all that is good in this world that every girl I've seen in the last two days is checking me out.

Today, for instance, I went to my favorite restaurant for lunch. I sit down, and there's a reasonably attractive young girl sitting with her family. She was probably 17 years old... or so I would guess. Auburn/red hair, and beautiful green eyes. I take a glance at her, randomly sweeping the restaurant as I do every time I eat, and she sees me looking. The next time I look up, she's looking at me. She looks away that time. The next time I look up, she's looking at me, and she doesn't look away. We hold the gaze for the moment, until I look away. We must have looked at each other, in quick glances that way, at least 15 times. She finally went to the bathroom, and while she was gone I left.

But come on... I've gone for nearly three years without a date and suddenly I do a few pull-ups... which have had very little noticeable effect outwardly... and girls are checking me out? What gives?

Okay, I'm liking this confidence boost you're getting, but don't be Jim Carrey in Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and think every girl that gives you the least bit attention is checking you out. Tread carefully man. I'm afraid that you simply looked at her too many times and she got weirded out.

[TwistRox]

I've got a bit of a situation. This girl asked me out to the new Batman movie. We were discussing the details (time, venue, etc) when her friend over hears our conversation. She said that she really wanted to see it. So this girl then invites her friend and then asks me to bring a friend as well. Is this also a hint that she doesn't see something between us? Or is she being courteous towards her friend? Now I've got a few actions as to what to do:
A) bring a friend and see what happens,
B) say "I was really hoping to see the movie with you." or something like that (might need some help from you guys), or
C) say I can't find a friend that wants to go see the movie and try to make just us two go, and
D) this is as a back-up. Ask her friend to not come.
Whichone is the best option? Do you have any suggestions, too?

[roza]

I've got a bit of a situation. This girl asked me out to the new Batman movie. We were discussing the details (time, venue, etc) when her friend over hears our conversation. She said that she really wanted to see it. So this girl then invites her friend and then asks me to bring a friend as well. Is this also a hint that she doesn't see something between us? Or is she being courteous towards her friend? Now I've got a few actions as to what to do:
A) bring a friend and see what happens,
B) say "I was really hoping to see the movie with you." or something like that (might need some help from you guys), or
C) say I can't find a friend that wants to go see the movie and try to make just us two go, and
D) this is as a back-up. Ask her friend to not come.
Whichone is the best option? Do you have any suggestions, too?

Maybe she's asking if you wanna bring a friend cause she is. I'd say go and se what happens. Build up something then maybe arrange something else for another time. Or book 2 tickets and say they only had 2 left?

[TwistRox]

Maybe she's asking if you wanna bring a friend cause she is. I'd say go and se what happens. Build up something then maybe arrange something else for another time. Or book 2 tickets and say they only had 2 left?

I was also thinking this. If I did the ticket trick, what happens if the cinema is half to three quarters full?

[Martiniii332]

I think that even if you were to bring a friend, it wouldnt matter much, all you need to do is focus on who you want to be with.

[roza]

I was also thinking this. If I did the ticket trick, what happens if the cinema is half to three quarters full?

I guess. But it depends when you go to see it. When my brother booked his he got one of the last 7 tickets left on Day 1 showing

[YoshiStar]

Wtf don't lie to anybody to get your way. She invited her friend and it would be very rude to say "can we just not go with your friend and go alone instead?". Why not just go for the movie with them, enjoy it, spend time with her, and plan something new with just her for another day? BTW, people who invite themselves to stuff suck.

[Mariolee]

Wtf don't lie to anybody to get your way. She invited her friend and it would be very rude to say "can we just not go with your friend and go alone instead?". Why not just go for the movie with them, enjoy it, spend time with her, and plan something new with just her for another day? BTW, people who invite themselves to stuff suck.

Took the words right out of my mouth. You're not gonna win anyone's heart by being an asshole.

[stevencho]

BTW, people who invite themselves to stuff suck.

My brother speaks truth.

[TwistRox]

You guys speak words of wisdom. Thank you.
Now I'll just need to find someone to take with me. Shouldn't be too hard.

[TwistRox]

God dang it! Now this girl's friend says she's going to invite her sister or another friend. And to make matters worse, we can't see it til next Saturday. I'm actually considering just canceling and going with other friends. I know it's just a movie, but the hype is almost killing me and I don't think I can last another week.

Edit: When you invite too many people it becomes hard to organize something because people have different time schedules.

[Patches]

God dang it! Now this girl's friend says she's going to invite her sister or another friend. And to make matters worse, we can't see it til next Saturday. I'm actually considering just canceling and going with other friends. I know it's just a movie, but the hype is almost killing me and I don't think I can last another week.

Edit: When you invite too many people it becomes hard to organize something because people have different time schedules.

Watch it this Friday with your buddies, then see it with her again next Saturday. Is it important you watch it for the first time with her?

[RAiDeN-209]

God dang it! Now this girl's friend says she's going to invite her sister or another friend. And to make matters worse, we can't see it til next Saturday. I'm actually considering just canceling and going with other friends. I know it's just a movie, but the hype is almost killing me and I don't think I can last another week.

Edit: When you invite too many people it becomes hard to organize something because people have different time schedules.

Kill her friend, hide the body.

Problem solved.

[darthnater]

Kill her friend, hide the body.

Problem solved.

All relationship problems can be solved like this.