The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[madoublex]

I've never kissed a gal.
Yes, I said it.

Same, I'm waiting for some I actually care about, not just some skank.

[coolguy753]

It hasn't really been that long and I was the one who broke up with her. You might be thinking of the girl I was with before. This only lasted a couple months and I realized that she just had to many issues she needed to work out before getting into a relationship.

Oh, right. It's hard to keep track :P.

[stevencho]

Oh, right. It's hard to keep track :P.

Ladies are like buses. There's always another one coming.

On that note, there is this girl who I know likes me and I like her but I haven't told her yet because considering I just got out of relationship, I feel like the right thing to do would be to wait at least a couple months before dating someone else. Even though I really have no reason not to and I might miss out on her if I wait too long. Hmm.. first world problems I tell ya..

[Luigi53]

I've never kissed a gal.
Yes, I said it.

Me neither. XD

[Eggboy'13]

Yeah, I've never been one to do anything like that just for the sake of it..
Infact, I don't know if it's incredibly obvious based on that, but I've never actually dated anyone. (18 years)
There's not much point to it as far as I can tell.. but that doesn't make it easy..
To be clear though, it's not cause I'm a total loser, I mean.. maybe once upon a time, but not now a day, it's purely due to my own restraint.

Ladies are like buses. There's always another one coming.

Lost a little respect for you just there..

[beardedwalrus]

Ladies are like buses. There's always another one coming.

On that note, there is this girl who I know likes me and I like her but I haven't told her yet because considering I just got out of relationship, I feel like the right thing to do would be to wait at least a couple months before dating someone else. Even though I really have no reason not to and I might miss out on her if I wait too long. Hmm.. first world problems I tell ya..

I'd go for it. It would suck terribly if waiting a few months meant she got away.

Lost a little respect for you just there..

For speaking the truth rather than trying to seem like a deep person? It's 100% accurate.

[coolguy753]

Ladies are like buses. There's always another one coming.

On that note, there is this girl who I know likes me and I like her but I haven't told her yet because considering I just got out of relationship, I feel like the right thing to do would be to wait at least a couple months before dating someone else. Even though I really have no reason not to and I might miss out on her if I wait too long. Hmm.. first world problems I tell ya..

Go for it dude. Indecision is worse than wrong decision.

[Eggboy'13]

For speaking the truth rather than trying to seem like a deep person? It's 100% accurate.

Trying to seem deep?
I just have a different view on women, and that seems a little shallow to me.

To each his own.

[Mariolee]

Trying to seem deep?
I just have a different view on women, and that seems a little shallow to me.

To each his own.

Not that I necessarily agree completely with stevencho's views, but I understand where he's coming from. The Dating game is just that, a game. To take it any more seriously than that is dangerous in High School, because it could lead to your grades falling, the rest of your social life squandering, and for what? That's not to mean that when one begins dating another, they shouldn't be sincere, because they should, but when dating leads to thoughts of marriage that's when you know you've taken it too far, because when you look at it from an outside perspective, most High School relationships aren't going to last, and the truth is that there's always going to be another girl coming eventually.

And it's not even a sexist attitude, as girls fall under this psychology as well.

[stevencho]

Lost a little respect for you just there..

I don't think you understand what I meant. When I say ladies are like buses, there's always another one coming. I meant it to mean don't get too hung up over the fact that you missed a girl or lost out on one. Because guess what? Within a few months you will have another opportunity to build a relationship with a new girl. Wasn't trying to be shallow. :/

[Eggboy'13]

I wasn't being entirely fair, I know what you mean.
It is game, but I don't play the dating game. I guess I think about it a bit differently.
I wouldn't want to mean something to someone like that (Haha) before it had potential to matter, or go any further than just a teen fling kinda thing. s:

But I often wonder if I really care about it at all. I guess because I feel hopeless on the matter.

[Mariolee]

I wasn't being entirely fair, I know what you mean.
It is game, but I don't play the dating game. I guess I think about it a bit differently.
I wouldn't want to mean something to someone like that (Haha) before it had potential to matter, or go any further than just a teen fling kinda thing. s:

But I often wonder if I really care about it at all. I guess because I feel hopeless on the matter.

Still 18? I wouldn't worry about it too much. You're not hopeless yet. Just focus on building your life, and when you're perfectly stable, then you can worry about finding a girl that makes you feel like you're on the top of the world.

[Eggboy'13]

Just focus on building your life, and when you're perfectly stable, then you can worry about finding a girl that makes you feel like you're on the top of the world.

I've said this to someone before, exactly this.
But.. it's quite difficult to look forward to a time like this when you're hung up on someone.
Y'know? You have this idea that you want to be with someone, but feel like it's impossible to make it to that point while holding onto this specific person.
\:
I know it doesn't really make sense, but she's given me a feeling like no other has.

[mchapra]

Seriously, It has been said before but I'll just say it again.

If there's someone you like, someone you really want to ask out. Go for it, Jump in. Even if you face rejection you'll come out more satisfied about it in the end.

[Mariolee]

I've said this to someone before, exactly this.
But.. it's quite difficult to look forward to a time like this when you're hung up on someone.
Y'know? You have this idea that you want to be with someone, but feel like it's impossible to make it to that point while holding onto this specific person.
\:
I know it doesn't really make sense, but she's given me a feeling like no other has.

You have a crush. They call it a crush because while you focus on that one love, everything around you crumbles away because you're so fixated on that one person. Fight that. Look at where you are now, and if you feel like you want her and can handle her, do some moves and capture her heart. If not, then just remember that it's just a crush and there'll be other better girls.

[HalfSwiss]

Seriously, It has been said before but I'll just say it again.

If there's someone you like, someone you really want to ask out. Go for it, Jump in. Even if you face rejection you'll come out more satisfied about it in the end.

Difficult to do if they have a boyfriend, etc.

[BioHazard-92]

Same, I'm waiting for some I actually care about, not just some skank.

But skanks always put out :P

[Eggboy'13]

But skanks always put out :P

Fuck off.

[BioHazard-92]

My girlfriend is getting me the Playstation Vita First Edition Bundle for Valentine's Day!! I'm so happy

[Luigi53]

My girlfriend is getting me the Playstation Vita First Edition Bundle for Valentine's Day!! I'm so happy

Why must I always get the pushy girls. ._.