The Relationships Thread of Discussing the Enigma that is Women

[TheKoopaDasher]

The previous discussions are more disturbing than what we plan to do, at least i know the latter is a joke...for the most part.

Yes, the previous discussions are disturbing, but they're also the point of the thread. If you would like to plan your amorous activities with Watson, I encourage you to make a separate thread.

[Hunter]

Yes, the previous discussions are disturbing, but they're also the point of the thread. If you would like to plan your amorous activities with Watson, I encourage you to make a separate thread.

Fine, although i find it unnerving that you know his real name, is it more than friendship between you two? *runs off*

[TheKoopaDasher]

Fine, although i find it unnerving that you know his real name, is it more than friendship between you two? *runs off*

It's in his sig... Watsonator... that was his previous account, when he trolled the site. Everyone that has been here within the last year knows about Watsonator.

[slimd1995]

Fine, although i find it unnerving that you know his real name, is it more than friendship between you two? *runs off*

Most members here know him by his real name.

[Hunter]

It's in his sig... Watsonator... that was his previous account, when he trolled the site. Everyone that has been here within the last year knows about Watsonator.

Well i wasn't here, the jury is still out on the nature of your relationship with him.

[TheKoopaDasher]

Anyway, back on topic...

I find it strange that everyone always says that you shouldn't be in a relationship to make you happy, but instead you should be happy before you get into the relationship. I agree with that somewhat, but at the same time, relationships aren't all fun and games... they require work, commitment, compromise, understanding, and time. For that amount of work, I feel like relationships should also complement you as a person, add more to your life than you could have without the relationship. So I think it's a bit wrong to say that you have to be completely happy with yourself as a person before you can get into a relationship... after all, if you're happy with everything in your life, why go into a relationship at all? The only reason to be in a relationship is to add something to your life that you can't find otherwise, thus making you more happy than you could be alone.

[xXStiffyJiffyXx]

No. Not at all. I just want to be able to come into this thread and have serious discussion, rather than seeing posts about disturbing planned bromance between you and Pothead Watson.

Yeah we were just kidding lol :P

[tmrd]

Well here you all are, probably expecting another post about some person that I like and will never have, or some woah is me bullcrap about the fact that I am never gonna get a girlfriend.
But here I am saying, yeah. I don't have one. And I am fine with it. Awwwww yeahhh boi.

[xXStiffyJiffyXx]

Well here you all are, probably expecting another post about some person that I like and will never have, or some woah is me bullcrap about the fact that I am never gonna get a boyfriend.
But here I am saying, yeah. I don't have one. And I am fine with it. Awwwww yeahhh boi.

Wait...asl??

[tmrd]

Wait...asl??

15 male australia. Haha. ?????

[xXStiffyJiffyXx]

15 male australia. Haha.

lol I'm just kidding bro

[tmrd]

lol I'm just kidding bro

Hahaha, its cool

[Hunter]

Well here you all are, probably expecting another post about some person that I like and will never have, or some woah is me bullcrap about the fact that I am never gonna get a boyfriend.
But here I am saying, yeah. I don't have one. And I am fine with it. Awwwww yeahhh boi.

Keep in mind that most relationships pre-22 tend to fail and fall apart because from that age onward you finally start shedding your shells and become a mature person who knows what he/she wants.

[tmrd]

Keep in mind that most relationships pre-22 tend to fail and fall apart because from that age onward you finally start shedding your shells and become a mature person who knows what he/she wants.

Thus why I don't want/need one right now. I really am fine right here right now.

EDIT: Holy crap, this is awkward, but I just realised that I wrote boyfriend instead of girlfriend. Haha. I was talking to one of my friends about her bf and I got muddled up. :P

[xXStiffyJiffyXx]

EDIT: Holy crap, this is awkward, but I just realised that I wrote boyfriend instead of girlfriend. Haha. I was talking to one of my friends about her bf and I got muddled up. :P

lol thats why I asked asl xD

[TheKoopaDasher]

I have a somewhat relevant question... why do we obsess so much over the marital scandals of politicans? Why does it matter? We elect the people to do a job, and they can continue to do that job regardless of their relationship status or sexual promiscuity. With divorce rate as high as it is and the people who are still married rarely happy, should we really be pointing the finger? Why does one man matter against so many? Money and power attract this type of thing... and as guys, we're born to do it. It's instinctual. So why do we care so much? If Bill Clinton wants to bump uglies with his intern, why should it matter to us? He was one of the best presidents in recent memory, but all we remember him for is a one-night stand. Who cares. It's ridiculous to focus so much on this. Let people live their own damn lives. If they make a mistake, welcome them to the club, because I'm sure everyone here has done something they regret.

[7sk]

hundred percent ot$ there

[Mariolee]

Anyway, back on topic...

I find it strange that everyone always says that you shouldn't be in a relationship to make you happy, but instead you should be happy before you get into the relationship. I agree with that somewhat, but at the same time, relationships aren't all fun and games... they require work, commitment, compromise, understanding, and time. For that amount of work, I feel like relationships should also complement you as a person, add more to your life than you could have without the relationship. So I think it's a bit wrong to say that you have to be completely happy with yourself as a person before you can get into a relationship... after all, if you're happy with everything in your life, why go into a relationship at all? The only reason to be in a relationship is to add something to your life that you can't find otherwise, thus making you more happy than you could be alone.

Because you're not going into a relationship because you have to, but because you want to. The reason you need to be happy before going into a relationship is so that you don't make the person you're dating the absolute center of your life. If that happens, then if they leave you, you will be torn apart and your whole life will go down the drain. But if you were happy without the person in the first place, then if they leave you, then yeah it sucks. But you can move on. That's the problem a lot of people, especially teenagers have with relationships.

They believe that once they find that ONE person, THEN they'll be happy. It doesn't help that the media over-romanticizes it as well. That ONE person won't make you happy forever. It's illogical to think otherwise. But, they can be an awesome partner in crime. They can help you do things that you couldn't have done otherwise!

Think of your live as an awesome video game, and then think of your partner/relationship as an awesome expansion pack. Sure, the expansion pack makes the game more enjoyable, but if you lose the expansion pack, you'll still be happy with the original video game. Does that make sense?

I have a somewhat relevant question... why do we obsess so much over the marital scandals of politicans? Why does it matter? We elect the people to do a job, and they can continue to do that job regardless of their relationship status or sexual promiscuity. With divorce rate as high as it is and the people who are still married rarely happy, should we really be pointing the finger? Why does one man matter against so many? Money and power attract this type of thing... and as guys, we're born to do it. It's instinctual. So why do we care so much? If Bill Clinton wants to bump uglies with his intern, why should it matter to us? He was one of the best presidents in recent memory, but all we remember him for is a one-night stand. Who cares. It's ridiculous to focus so much on this. Let people live their own damn lives. If they make a mistake, welcome them to the club, because I'm sure everyone here has done something they regret.

Because people have the childlike belief that the people they're giving so much power to will be responsible, not only in their job but in their lives as well. People think that if they can't handle their lives with silly things like marital scandals, which they attribute to homewreckers and terrible people, then they believe they shouldn't have all this power.

I love talking with you Koopa.

[YoshiStar]

Haha, Koopa. I think one of your problems is that you just haven't found a girl you're completely comfortable with. Someone you can do whatever you want in front of and it won't matter. Lol, I'm not bragging (or maybe I am) but I have someone really really important to me. We just shit talk on the phone for hours, say random things, read each others' minds, and go crazy. We're not in a relationship because of some small issues, but I'm still satisfied, stress-free, and completely happy that I can be best friends with someone like that. Lol, we both know that we still like each other though .. It's complicated but really simple ... but anyway, I think you just need someone like that, and when you find her you'll be happy.

[Unknown Flames]

So about this girl I really like, I'm dieing to tell her that I like her. I'm really good friends with her and every time we talk she thinks that she's not pretty, and that no one likes her. It kills me just to hear her say that. Alas, I can't tell her. I'm moving in a month and I rather not have something happen and me leaving with regret.

Though I am planning on doing something. The day before I move, I'm going to tell her exactly how I feel. I'm not going to care about her reaction, I don't care what she thinks. I just need to tell her so badly. I just want to tell her that she is beautiful and that she shouldn't worry about her looks or anything.